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Birth to Death and everything in between....
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Hey everybody, this is my little piece of earth where I can not only express my views, but I can have you read them and reply to me also. First I'd like to start off by saying that I by no means plan or intend to offend anyone by any thing that I might say. I hope that by telling you about some of my life experiences I may be able to help someone, or just brighten a gloomy day. Thank you for reading !!!
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The first topic I'd like to address is very close to my heart in that I am a "second string" parent. In an age where the age of becoming when a person becomes a parent is steadily decreasing, the chances of those two individuals staying together or getting married are very slim. These individuals tend to find new mates, with the female generally keeping custody of the child. In my situation I am the new mate, and I live with the female and her child. The Father of the child has elected to not be a part of his childs life. Now, for those of you in my situation, you know that living with your mate is hard and to complicate that with a child that is not yours is a challenge. I have been around since the childs birth and therefore have bulit a very strong bond with him. And sometimes I forget that he is not my son. But, he doesn't. He looks at me as a "father figure", but not as his father. Which is how he should feel because I am not his father, but that doesn't make it any easier. I remember how we went out once and someone said "give this to your Daddy" or somthing like that to him and he said "that's not my Daddy". It was like being dumped by every girlfriend I ever had at once.
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